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12 years ago
elfling
I'm leaving the US. I have a conference in Poland. :)
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13 years ago
elfling
Re: "F-ing a baby to get rid of AIDS" - During the Victorian era, the myth was widely believed that one "f-d a fresh" (that is had sex with a virgin - specifically a child 12 or under) to get rid of syphilis. I expect that Trey and Matt put that in because it *is actually believed*. That is their usual method of operating. btw: the Victorians also believed that syphi
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13 years ago
elfling
I just visited the Doctor Who experience in London last week! Awesome. They had two of the real TARDIS consoles, 1 used by Doctors 4-7 and 10's which still showed some burn marks from the regeneration scene. Also lots of costumes, monsters and other cool stuff some of it you got to play with. I spent way too much money in the gift shop and came home with remote control shooting Daleks - my la
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13 years ago
elfling
Does your son have a cellphone that can record? If not buy him a micro recorder and have him keep it in a pocket and turn it on when his dad is in the same room as him. You could also set up a tiny web cam to record what happens when you aren't there. Any evidence of mistreatment would help.
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13 years ago
elfling
I second all of those, and add Alice in Wonderland and Alice through the Looking Glass -
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13 years ago
elfling
Religious scholars agree that the "Virgin Birth" was an idea that first appeared in documents dating around 400 AD Jesus' divinity (son of god) didn't appear until around 100-200 AD. A very good reference for this which is really hard to read, since it keeps quoting parts in aramaic and ancient greek is: The Virgin Birth, by Bill Scheide Princeton
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13 years ago
elfling
I've told this story before, but I was a premed student on scholarship at BYU. My adviser told me that I shouldn't be in the premed program, because I was female and had taken the place that should have gone to a boy. Of course, conditioned to obedience as mormon girls are, I dropped out of the program.
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13 years ago
elfling
Mormons no longer permit the term "Free Agency" if you do a word search or word count you will find it is not "Free" just "Agency"
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13 years ago
elfling
WOOHOO! You will be so happy! I'm pursuing my Ph.D. in C.S.(systems and security) and just this week, start doing it full time(I've been struggling w/ doing it evenings and weekends for 3 years - almost impossible). I can't believe how much it has improved my self-image and opened worlds to me. The fact that people value my opinions, respect my research and invite me to collaborate with t
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13 years ago
elfling
I know for certain that there is no direct connection. We are not permitted to do work that the govt. can make classified - and in my area of specialization, this can be problematic for the govt. When we were doing voting stuff, we lost 5 weeks of research time, because the rights to publish had to be negotiated (big fight) and we wouldn't even look at the code until we won the right to publish
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13 years ago
elfling
http://www.livescience.com/7315-drug-deletes-bad-memories.html
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13 years ago
elfling
Ziller should ask locals where they go for a night out, and go there. ziller should eat in restaurants with a majority of locals. Ziller should get fresh squeezed Orange Juice from street vendors (who squeeze it by hand when you order) ziller should pick a place on a map, or gps coordinates and go out and wander. ziller should enjoy ziller's self w/o pressure
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13 years ago
elfling
Hey what's wrong w/ homemade bread? My Williams-Sonoma bread machine bread tastes *much* better (and costs more) than generic 'wonder-bread.
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13 years ago
elfling
Great response!
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13 years ago
elfling
try to qualify for the more exclusive societies - Triple 9, Intertel, TOPS, Cerebrals, Vertex, Prometheus, Mega...
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13 years ago
elfling
Chronological age != Real Age. Don't let somebody else decide for you what you can or cannot do at any age. My hero is 74 and is publishing this year the 4th book in a series over 30 years after he published the 3rd book. He's also started a new puzzle book that will come out later this year. Many of my favorite people reinvent themselves several times during their lives. As a matter of fa
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13 years ago
elfling
Oh this is great. Thanks!
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13 years ago
elfling
My answer to her would be a happy 'Yup'!!! Too bad the stupid ones breed so much more frequently than the smart ones
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13 years ago
elfling
Hang in there! Find just one thing that brings you joy. Just one and make sure to do it tomorrow. We'll be thinking of you.
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13 years ago
elfling
The year before I left, I asked the bishop about a Ward budget discrepancy I had noticed. namely, the budget for the boys was 3 times larger than the budget for the girls ($1500 vs $500). He told me, to my face, *while I was holding the actual ward budget document and a ward calendar in my hands* that there was *No Difference* between the boys and the girls budgets or activities. So, when I
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13 years ago
elfling
I have 3 netbooks (1 linux, 1 win7 and 1 hackintosh), a 17" macbook pro and an iPad. The iPad is great for what it does (consume media) but it doesn't replace a laptop. I use it for games, some web browsing and for reading academic papers (in pdf format) - the problem is, even with the latest OS, you really can't have more than one thing open at a time. So if you want to cross-referen
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13 years ago
elfling
Good for you Rj. That took guts. Please let us know how it goes.
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13 years ago
elfling
put a wifi camera up. Record them pulling down the sign and post on you-tube
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13 years ago
elfling
Point them to research showing how Science is explaining where humans get their ideas of God.
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13 years ago
elfling
The teachings and practices of this cult offend me.
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13 years ago
elfling
Two words: Hired Help. I don't understand how anybody making 200K/year > greater can't hire a cleaning lady? I don't clean anything willingly. Nearly everything I do or want to do is more important to me than cleaning. I do NOT want to look back at my like and remember the times I scrubbed stuff. So, whenever I can afford it, I trade money and have somebody else do it. No big deal.
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13 years ago
elfling
The STAY-POOF Marshmellow man! I love it.
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13 years ago
elfling
It's freezing out (17 degrees or so and windy) - I'm gonna stay inside and build a hackint0sh, then maybe play Fallout New Vegas.
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13 years ago
elfling
Actually, she sort of is to blame. If she had been a better mother, she would have freed you from the cult before it had a chance to damage you.
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