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8 years ago
montanadude
Turley also showed his true from when he joined Oaks for the Boise Rescue last June. He basically told the youth that I'm a historian, lawyer and smarter than you so the church is true and get back in line. The guy is a "hobby" historian, a hack and a lap dog for the GAs. The only good news is Turley is sure to be a PR disaster for LD$ Inc.
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8 years ago
montanadude
A good friend of mine works on the Utah Genome Project. This is a DNA gathering project based out of the University of Utah that discovered the gene that predisposes women to breast cancer. They picked Utah because of their propensity for large families to track breast cancer history. My friend told me they frequently come across a family with a child who's DNA doesn't match the parents. I
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8 years ago
montanadude
Enjoying a spring rain storm in Bozeman and looking forward to putting a dent in a Bozone Amber six pack this afternoon.
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8 years ago
montanadude
The leaked changes to the Bishop's manual on baptizing children in same sex relationships was a shit storm that happened via RFM and other boards. I believe the minions check in regularly to RFM. I also feel the SLC local media check in regularly to get the EXMO pulse on topics. Peggy Stack has even mentioned RFM in her SL Tribune Blog.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Don, you are a beautiful writer. Your stories are haunting because I know they are based on your life. Like a Sam Shepherd play. I hope it is therapeutic for you. Thank you for sharing. Unbelievable how parents justify treating their children yet claim to believe in Mormonism.
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8 years ago
montanadude
I live just down the street from the SDA church. SDAs and Mormons share the pre-church ritual of hauling ass in a mini van full of kids because they are late for church. Stay off of 15th Ave. in Bozeman on Saturday mornings. It's life threatening.
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8 years ago
montanadude
But they can't talk about it because it's too sacred.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Since it's NCAA basketball tourney time, I'll share a related story. My temple name is Caleb. I went through once to get married in 1982 and never went back (the era of slit throats and disembowelment). The old man with bad breath whispered it into my ear and told me if I ever told someone I risked death. Holy shit, what could I do sitting there naked except for a Mo surgical gown. At the t
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8 years ago
montanadude
An old high school friend is a bishop of a ward in SLC made up exclusively of sex offenders. There are all men who have been told by members in their home wards to stay away. He said they get about 20 to 30 attendees each Sunday. He said many are current priesthood holders and basically a member in good standing.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Oooops. Apologies for the dangling sentence from the previous post.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Where the church has temples has always been an economic indicator for at least sustainability. I'm hoping Quinn's upcoming book will look at these statistics. In Montana (population 1 million), there is only the Billings temple. Billings is in the far southeast part of the state. My town, Bozeman, is 2 hours away from Billings and 3 hours from Rexburg (next closest temple). It is closer
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8 years ago
montanadude
They were fantastic. I remember they had live bands. There was a local band named Roadwork that played at stake dances in Salt Lake City's Holladay area in the mid-70s. I had my first make out session at a stake dance! Good times.
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8 years ago
montanadude
The girl scout swarm won't start for a few months! What I wouldn't do for a sleeve of frozen thin mints to go with my coffee!
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8 years ago
montanadude
Brother Nelson's dear sweetheart, Wendy, will continue to keep him alive until he's the prophet. She wants it as bad as he does but I'm afraid her huge ego will eventually cause her head to explode.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Damn you Don Bagley! I just laughed so hard coffee came out my nose and how I have to clean my screen.
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8 years ago
montanadude
The Hoffman bombings brought to light that LD$ Inc. was purchasing letters and journals that claimed old Joe and his crazy followers who could talk in tongues, interpret talking in tongues, see angels and believe a white salamander existed. Fortunately, some of those journals became property of the RLDS members and became public knowledge. The Hoffman documents just scratch the surface. The ch
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8 years ago
montanadude
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine the pain of losing a child. This Mormon attitude to put a big smile when someone close dies because they "have been called to a higher mission" is completely unhealthy. Put your anger and sadness on a shelf and shoulder to the wheel. I had a TBM friend lose their parents in a car accident years ago and basically shut out any emotion after
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8 years ago
montanadude
Since being a mission president is often the resume builder for future church leadership, let the race to be a General Authority begin! Each will be assigned a GA to kiss up to.
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8 years ago
montanadude
I remember going to primary on Wednesdays right after school in the late 60's. MIA was the same evening for youth above 12 years-old and usually involved scouting for the boys. In those days, you had to stay in primary until your 12th birthday. My birthday was late in the year and for two months my parents made me go to primary with the younger kids because the rest had moved on to MIA. I was
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8 years ago
montanadude
This is truly an offensive post and goes against everything this site is about. We all have our own journey out of LD$ Inc. Some, like me, resigned years ago. Others stay involved for family, business or whatever and feel safe talking about their challenges and progression on this site. Whether you are struggling with LD$ Inc.or have left. You are welcome here and posts calling people ou
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8 years ago
montanadude
One of my favorite Montana local bars is the Law Dog Saloon in Elliston (population 200). Each year, they host a "Bigfoot hunt." They don't believe in Bigfoot. It's an excuse for the locals to have a huge party, chili cook-off, get really drunk and run around the forest at night. They do draw a couple of crazy conspiracy theorists who actually believe in Bigfoot. Designated drivers
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8 years ago
montanadude
Yikes Lethbridge! I won't complain about the -12F Christmas morning in Bozeman.
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8 years ago
montanadude
Joseph Smith made it up after his brother died at a young age. During his funeral the minister basically said he wouldn't get to heaven because he was never officially baptized into a religion. Smith's mother was despondent so old Joe made up baptism for the dead. Steve Benson previously recently posted an excellent, detailed summary.
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8 years ago
montanadude
This is the reason I love Pat Bagley's drawings of the LDS GAs and the Utah state legislature. They all look the same to me! Let's not forget, the BYU vice president who used a racial slur in front of Norm Chow (a BYU assistant football coach - who is Chinese). The priceless part is that the administrator didn't take any responsibility for the slur. "I didn't know he was Chinese.&quo
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8 years ago
montanadude
BYU will always struggle as an independent. There has been rumblings about BYU joining the Big 12, but I don't see it ever happening. BYU wants everyone to bow down to playing no Sunday games. Also, the national press took LD$ Inc. to task on denying baptism for children of gay parents. It would be a mistake for BYU to get a reputation as the "poly school". I feel most recruits
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8 years ago
montanadude
And....Utah basketball beat Duke in Madison Square Garden on national t.v. Great day to be a Ute!
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8 years ago
montanadude
Anytime I hear the song, "It's the most wonderful time of the year" I want to scream. It's an awful time of year for many. Thanks for the reminder WCG. My wife and I quit celebrating the holidays years ago because many friends and associates struggle this time of year. BTW. Great advice on taking vitamin D during the short days. Many in Montana "hit the D" this time
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8 years ago
montanadude
C.J. Box. It's similar to a Tony Hillerman book only substitute the reservation detective for a Montana wildlife resources officer.
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8 years ago
montanadude
I believe the Second Annointing is based on your relationship with Mormon royalty. That being said, any thoughts on the "minimum" calling, if any, you would need to have to be considered? You would at least have to be a temple president?
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