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11 years ago
wittyname
Yes, my fault, blah, blah, blah. Just pile on me, have some fun you all. You people like nothing more than abusing someone, so have your fun, the Admin apparently supports it. Enjoy!!!!
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11 years ago
wittyname
OH for crying out loud. Haven't there been enough posts calling me out? We really need another one. LEAVE ME ALONE YOU PEOPLE. I am leaving, seriously, gone. I've been here for the better part of 7 years but this is really the end of the line for me. Enjoy you gossips. Oh, I know, this post won't stay long, I'm not up the Admin's rear far enough to get my posts to stay. Only the ones that abuse m
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11 years ago
wittyname
No worries, flyboy. Just wrong post in right place, wires crossed. I'm sorry about your grandmother. I wish her a speedy recovery.
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11 years ago
wittyname
Who asks that, seriously? People can be so inappropriate!
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11 years ago
wittyname
Annony Wrote: ------------------------------------------------------- I've never used the > male "c" word with her before. > > This kind of makes me think of experience with 2 exes. One (who was oddly otherwise seriously repressed) asked me, during sex, what I liked my... parts called. I'm not repressed in other ways, but when it comes to saying certain words or talk,
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11 years ago
wittyname
I do that all the time :-D
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11 years ago
wittyname
It might take a while of you doing the talking for her to feel comfortable replying. Could be a long time, but eventually she might put her toe in the water. I know in my experience in the past, I'd think things and have this inner dialogue like "SAY IT JUST SAY IT!!!!" silence "SAY IT" but my mouth would not get on board with the plan my mind had. Eventually though, I'd fe
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11 years ago
wittyname
But it doesn't sound like he doesn't know how to get her turned on, it sounds like he wants her to share in what gets him going. It's probably something that's awkward to her. I replied above about being a bit of an inhibited type and the idea of just freely engaging in dirty talk just... I couldn't. I just couldn't. Even though dirty talk from a man was sexy to me. It's just not something I coul
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11 years ago
wittyname
I used to get turned on when the guy talked but the idea of dirty talk on my own was just way too awkward. I couldn' imagine those things coming out of my mouth. To he frank, they still don't spill from my mouth freely, but I'm always happy to participate if the ice is broken via questions and that sort of thing. Everyone is different, so I can't speak for your wife, but having a conversation
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11 years ago
wittyname
That's a good point.
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11 years ago
wittyname
Why is lube always the answer, or part of the answer. I'm a woman and I hate lube. Lube would not make me more inclined to be vocal in bed. I doubt it do much for anon's wife, either.
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11 years ago
wittyname
Nope, not a perv. Have you tried asking questions rather than just saying sexy things. Like "do you want my x? Where" or "how much" Or get close to doing something you know she likes and ask her what she wants you to do. It might be awkward at first, maybe even yes/no questions to start out with. Eventually, slowly, you might be able to make her more comfortable with sexy chat
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11 years ago
wittyname
You say: "Most of the time when people quit the church is because they are doing things that are against the commandments of God. Whether that is why you have left and justify your leaving because of other reasons, I don't know. But sometimes I wonder if you having studied and know so much that you have rationalized your intelligence over the gospel of jesus christ." Actually , mo
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11 years ago
wittyname
I think the liquor license has to do with sales. I don't need a license to serve my dinner party guests wine. Restaurants don't need licenses to uncork bottles that restaurant patrons bring with them. It's about the sale. The church is literally making money off the sale of alcohol, because if they own the mall, they are taking a percent of their lease-holder's gross (or maybe it's net, it's been
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11 years ago
wittyname
I believe they can already get that through a domestic partnership agreement. Or maybe even without. Palimony does not require marriage. BUT they would need to be married to get social security benefits. That's a big one.
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11 years ago
wittyname
Yes, what both above said. I don't understand the need to list every reason gay people would want to get married (I've never been married before so I don't even know the specifics beyond what I've guessed as to the benefits that heterosexual couples enjoy.)It's equality, what more reason need there be?
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11 years ago
wittyname
I didn't read the link, but one of the reasons there are no smoking clauses in rentals is because the nicotine coats everything and requires base paint to neutralize it, otherwise it will leak through new paint with it's yellowy film. I imagine it coats cabinets and appliances too.
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11 years ago
wittyname
Pet relief is a huge issue. It was one of the charities I donated to with katrina, as well. Pets are family members, hearts break over the loss of pets. People, no doubt, are up wondering if their beloved pet is somewhere starving to death, or dead. 99% of shelters for people DO NOT accept animals and people have to make the gut wrenching choice of saving themselves or staying with their
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11 years ago
wittyname
Being able to make end of life decisions, as next of kin. Being able to hear medical prognosis if your spouse is incapacitated, as next of kin. Procuring benefits for your spouse, as next of kin. The list goes on and on, what is the point of this? Another post to say there's no point to gay marriage? If you are so clueless that you can't see with your own eyes the rights denied to gay c
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11 years ago
wittyname
The internet is the nail in the coffin
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11 years ago
wittyname
My ex loved call of duty. Last game I loved was Psychonauts :-p I play glitch online. That's my kind of game.
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11 years ago
wittyname
I'm a vegetarian, and I couldn't care less what you eat, or what anyone else eats. Good job, it's ironic, you just made yourself look like the worst kind of mormon. The paint everyone with the same stroke Mormon. THe all A are B mormons. Well done you.
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11 years ago
wittyname
I know. Those awful socialists (isn't that the worst thing you can call a politican these days :-p)! How DARE THEY!!!!
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11 years ago
wittyname
To be fair, Meatless Monday has been a big food blog trend/meme for years. Kind of like Souper Sunday. I think the name flow has a lot to do with the day selection. If you pick a few days a month at your leisure, it's the same thing. It just doesn't have the same ring as ring as the alliterative "meatless monday"
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11 years ago
wittyname
How many real problems in our country can the LOCAL government in LA solve? if you are against this LOCAL government's suggestion, bringing up countrywide issues is faulty logic.
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11 years ago
wittyname
How is that big brother? Giving people suggestions for a healthier life and environment isn't big brother. People can opt not to follow it. For those who otherwise thought "what can one person do, what little change will matter in my life" now they have a new suggestion. For crying out loud, the government and health boards make suggestions, and then people somehow lose their ability
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11 years ago
wittyname
non-mo related politics is usually an issue only around general election time. It will die down. It will die down less quickly this time, given the defeated candidate was a mormon.
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11 years ago
wittyname
I don't accept friend requests from people I don't actually KNOW on a personal level. Anything else seems like "collecting" people. However, if you feel like you need to accept them, you can create a group to put them in, whereby they don't see your wall or have access to anything other than what you allow them. Or you can leave their requests hanging, and not decline, they won't kn
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11 years ago
wittyname
Wow, that a shitte name.
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11 years ago
wittyname
That's crazy. Like certifiable crazy. I think there's medication for that.
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