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2 days ago
gemini
https://kutv.com/news/local/civil-lawsuit-accuses-byu-quarterback-jake-retzlaff-of-sexual-assault-brigham-young-university-cougars# One local channel had it as breaking news on afternoon news. The LDS channel (KSL) didn't mention it until several other stories in the broadcast.
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7 weeks ago
gemini
The only thing I ever felt in the prayer circle was faint..like ready to pass out from having that veil over my face!
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7 weeks ago
gemini
A few months after my divorce from dh after he had come out as a gay man. Went to Bishop to ask for a temple divorce. Bishop: "the church doesn't do that anymore. It will all be worked out in the eternities". Me: "So will he be turned straight then, too?" wringing of hands and hemming and hawing and finally bishop said "I don't know". In that instant, I knew I was d
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8 weeks ago
gemini
Just read about the nationwide protests at the National Mall in D.C. and at every state capitol. Date April 5th.Saturday session of conference. Will Rusty postpone that day's session of conference and encourage everyone to participate in this protest?
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8 weeks ago
gemini
Talk about your "side hustle"! When I read that these recycle bags cost from $28-$40 I burst out laughing.
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2 months ago
gemini
I saw that they are doing several shows in Canada before they come to the states and do some. Glad to see them touring again!
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2 months ago
gemini
I haven't seen Tal post here for years. I enjoyed meeting him when he was the main speaker at an ex-mo conference in Salt Lake several years ago. I just found out he joined his dad's band, BTO, a couple of years ago. They will be out at the Peppermill Concert Hall in Wendover, NV. August 15th if anyone is interested in seeing him perform. Tal certainly had an interesting story of his jo
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2 months ago
gemini
Been in Utah permanently since 1980 when DH was hired at BYU. Left LDS, Inc formally in 2009 but was out mentally since late 90's There are lots of folks here not who want nothing to do with mormonism, at least where I live in South Salt Lake County.
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3 months ago
gemini
I attended the U of I waaaay back in 1967 for one year. To my very sheltered life of being raised in a small town in southern Idaho, this University experience was a BIG liberal shock to me! To hear about what is going on there really saddens me.
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3 months ago
gemini
https://www.ksl.com/article/51242565/unanimous-9th-circuit-panel-dismisses-huntsman-tithing-lawsuit This broke earlier today in the Tribune and just showed up on KSL. Not surprised, but disappointed.
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4 months ago
gemini
I find it interesting that many devout temple attending women in the church are over the moon about that cap sleeve in the garments going away! Yay, I can wear a sleeveless blouse now. These little scraps of independence are really an insult in my mind, but many just "praise jesus" that they get anything.
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4 months ago
gemini
This is a very helpful and interesting discussion. I find myself starting to consider my options as well. I have health issues. I bought a long-term care policy years ago with an inflation rider that has increased the monthly benefit substantially. Let's keep this discussion going and keep getting input! It's great!
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4 months ago
gemini
It does appear the LA temple is safe for now. A chapel in Palisades has burned down according to some reporting I read. I see there are a few other temples in So. CA. so I suppose everyone down there is on high alert. LDS, Inc self insures so some of their Ensign Peak portfolio holdings are going to be used to rebuild/renovate whatever church buildings are destroyed.
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4 months ago
gemini
Can anyone access this or only LDS members? If anyone can access it, can they also upload pictures to the website? A family member found a picture of me from high school there today. I have no idea how it got there.
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4 months ago
gemini
thankyou!
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4 months ago
gemini
I was afraid of that. Ok, here are some of the details A guy named Clark Gilbert is the education commissioner. In his first year he grouped the faculty into 4 categories: 1-The faithful core-They teach with the spirit and weave in church tenets. 2-The Supportive Center-they support the church but are not as enthusiastic as church leaders think they ought to be. 3-The Secular First-They pu
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4 months ago
gemini
https://www.sltrib.com/religion/2025/01/05/byu-blue-why-these-are-dark-days/ This originally came out in Sunday's paper. I subscribe to the online edition, but scouted around and found that the Sunday print edition is also available at the Maverick service station. I bought a copy and it will be saved for my posterity to show them how evil TSSC really is. If this link is also behind a pa
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4 months ago
gemini
Yes, I read that whole article with revulsion. It sickens me to know my little innocent great grandchildren are being subjected to this sick "papering over" of polygamy (in cartoon fashion no less!)
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5 months ago
gemini
This is a made-up assignment. There really isn't anything for senior missionaries to do if they aren't at some historical site where they can show people around or at a genealogical library or such. Gawd forbid they let these senior citizens actually do real service in a food pantry, homeless shelter or such. Good grief.
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5 months ago
gemini
https://kutv.com/news/local/utah-mission-leader-temple-prep-instructor-charged-with-numerous-child-sex-crimes# Disgusting and disturbing!
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5 months ago
gemini
I am beginning the downsize also, and it certainly stirs up memories. My Patriarchal blessing is a trigger point for sure. Bandelo and the little blue notebook with the big seagull on the cover. They have not gone into the trash, yet, but 2025 is the year I really want to rid myself of all of that! Thanks for the perfect New Year's Resolution
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5 months ago
gemini
She was found competent to stand trial in the death of her former husband and the attempted murder of her niece's husband. What could possibly go wrong? Good Grief
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5 months ago
gemini
News out today that a scaled back and steeple lowering plan has been agreed to and that new plans will be submitted to the planning commission. Not a done deal, but closer that before. I have an idea..hey mormon church, ditch the whole temple idea in that town. They really don't want your monstrosity building.
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5 months ago
gemini
Thank you for showing that! I did not know there was a newer building behind the high school. All is well knowing the indoctrination (seminary) classes are still going on! /S/
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5 months ago
gemini
Murray High is still there and IIRC is being expanded. That sad seminary building stood across the street for years, empty and deteriorating.
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6 months ago
gemini
A few years ago, the pedestrian bridge from Murray HS over State St. to the little seminary building was removed. Soon, the grass was dead and recently I saw the windows were boarded up. Today I drove past and noticed the building is demolished and debris is all gone. I suspect a new retail business or an apartment building will go into the area. So, what is the status of "released time
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6 months ago
gemini
Where do The Stake Patriarchs fit into this? As a teenager, going to get my patriarchal blessing seemed like such a big deal. Listening for the all important information like future callings and marriage and posterity and all that was essential. I know I thought he was kind of a prophet.
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6 months ago
gemini
^^^^ True!
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6 months ago
gemini
I sent a donation just now. This board was my lifeline when I went through a traumatic time. Meeting Eric and Richard Packham and others at an exmo conference in Vegas soon after this board was up and running in the late 90's was the exact thing I needed to move forward and leave mormonism. Thank you for keeping this going for us old timers!
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