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9 years ago
utahfantasy
Thanks all, I appreciate it!
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9 years ago
utahfantasy
So my wife and I got married in the temple about five years ago. Since then we both have left and are done with TSCC and now hate our wedding pics and some memories of that special day. Would it be weird to renew our vows in our mid 20s? Probably sends a pretty clear message to our relatives that are members still. Look forward to your thoughts.
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9 years ago
utahfantasy
I was thinking that I would resign on the 4th of July for quite some time now. Thinking it would be cool to add my own special meaning to Independence Day. But is that just a weird thought? Also will my TBM relatives find out the date I resigned? Don't really want to ruin the 4th for them. All opinions welcome. Thanks.
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9 years ago
utahfantasy
How many mormon apologists does it take to change a light bulb?? Two, one to change the light bulb and one to insist that nothing has changed.
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9 years ago
utahfantasy
Yes. I feel the same way. We recently moved into a new neighborhood and wish I could build relationships with neighbors but feel it isn't worth it and am probably a bit of a hermit.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
I know it's a pathetic topic but since leaving the church my wife and I have a really hard time hanging out with mormon friends. Unfortunately, they are the people we associated with for years. So we don't know any non-mos. wish we had some other couples to drink with and do stuff with. Looking for advice on where to meet people. Shit it's pathetic. Haha
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
She really has a hard time with family/social repercussions. She knows people will find out and hates that part of it. But she knows it is only a matter of time before they find out anyway. So I am hoping she will be ready soon cause I would like to do it together. I am so ready tho. Another family line soon to be out
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Post occasionally, lurking for a good year now. Northern Utah. PS just wrote my resignation letter, wife mentioned she might want to send hers soon so I'm waiting to hopefully send together. Yay!
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
17. Creepy and makes people feel uncomfortable in their own skin.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
http://www.normons.com/16-reasons-buddy-elf-probably-mormon/ This is by far the dumbest thing I have ever seen someone put on paper... Well besides the BOM, BOA, and other Joe Smith crap. But seriously, who even thinks about something like this?
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Alright, well if I get anymore visits I will be more direct, I tried to stay friendly to see if they get the message. My wife always said she would only resign if we are pestered or they take things too far. Secretly I hope that happens.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Well it finally happened, this evening during the Giants-Cowboys game I got a knock on my door. Normally I will mute the tv cause I am not big on the unexpected drop in. But for some odd inexplicable reason I jumped up immediately and answered the door. And there they were. The conversation was immediately awkward cause I'm sure someone told them prior to coming all about me. Well they didn't was
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Love it!! How do we get one in Davis County??
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Please read this article and let me know how it makes sense. This just seems like something TBMs will grasp onto as legitimate proof; which it isn't. http://m.sciencemag.org/content/342/6157/409.summary
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Facebook group?
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
How awesome would it be to have booths all over the place where we could hand out copies of the ces letter and other materials to people. Imagine going to the mall and seeing "The Resignation Station" that would make my day. They could wear black shirts and white name tags. Think of the lives we could save.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
I know it's dumb, just thought I would share.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
My wife came to me in a somber mood this morning and said I had a nightmare last night. I asked what it was about thinking it was the usual murder/scary movie type dream and didn't think much of it. Then she replied, we went to the temple with your family. I was shocked. She said my family pressured us into going and we went to try and make peace. She said she had this sick feeling the entire tim
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Hi All, I know you all have posted yours a few times but now I am ready to write mine and am looking for ideas and ways to format it. My wife gave me the green light to write both of ours (stoked about this obv). A few questions though, do I need our membership numbers? I ripped up my temple recommend a while back so I don't have mine. I appreciate it. Two less members coming up.....
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
20. Apology
After I left the church last year I had a sudden and dramatic change of heart when it came to same-sex marriages. I just want to extend my deepest apologies for the things I thought were true and for the things still being taught on the subject. I am now an advocate for all of you and I sincerely regret being on the other side of the fence. "I may not be the same but that's not important,
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Agree with Xyandro. All I see is backlash. Minimize your losses. Just have a drink and give it a few days. It won't bother you as much or as long as the regret you may have in sending it.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
I don't know if you did it on purpose or not but I like that you didn't capitalize any words in the name of the church. I like subtle jabs.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
I seriously would love this so much. Only thing that would be better is if it was a hand-held microphone and he just dropped it and walked off after that and held his hands in the air. Would be epic.
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
Drowning and people are describing the water
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
What would be a good bar to call? One with a good atmosphere. I have never been to one so....
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10 years ago
utahfantasy
As a new drinker I am somewhat intimidated on how and what to order. Does anyone know of any group mixology courses that are available in utah? I think it would be an awesome way to learn with the wife and some friends.
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11 years ago
utahfantasy
I didn't grab my shoes or nothin Jesus. I got bronchitis. Ain't nobody got time fo dat
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11 years ago
utahfantasy
Or shiz. So annoying. Grow up you dumb mf's
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11 years ago
utahfantasy
Hahahaha funny stuff. "Holyjesusmotherfuckingchrist"
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11 years ago
utahfantasy
Yeah saying oh my gosh just suddenly felt childish. Those days are over, I swear to god!! lol
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