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1 year ago
icanseethelight
91. um...no
Because I do not know the dynamic of the relationship I can offer no sage advice. But my question would be why did she ask at all? Why not just tell you what she was doing and when?
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1 year ago
icanseethelight
...have not been on in years. What is happening?
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1 year ago
icanseethelight
I got it about 4 years ago, it took me 36 years to get my Masters in it. I suggest getting yours. I am not minimizing the incredible pain that TSCC has inflicted on all of us. It seems to be never ending, especially when people you love are still afflicted with belief. But kicking the habit of letting how other people think and feel about your behavior dictate how you are going to live you
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1 year ago
icanseethelight
gaslighting.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
I am friends with the bishop in the ward my wife goes to. His take on the situation is that he is rearranging the chairs on the deck of the titanic. For some, the tribe is the thing.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Sorry, I thought I was done, but whose 'truth'? Everyone's truth is different, and subjective to their worldview and belief system. But you are right. No matter what you say, truth or lie, quietly or boldy, someone is going to get offended.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Nope, I don't judge anyone. I wasn't judging you or anyone else who has cared enough to engage with me. If you have figured out a way to use someone else's manipulation of your emotions to help you, good for you...
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Since you posted that twice, genocide must really be a hot button issue for you. And who said I am not empathetic? I am glad you are motivated to fight against the things that cause you to react emotionally. But almost every war ever fought is an attempt at genocide, we just did not start calling it that until after Hilter purged European Jews. And genocide does not necessarily equal
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
LOL, I have enjoyed all the people reveling in their ability to be offended. From things truly horrific, to the mundane. For those offended by all of these various atrocities, what has that feeling done to alleviate the suffering of those that are directly affected? Has your anger and offense served any purpose other than to make you feel better about yourself? Saucie - where have you spoken?
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
blueorchid, let me be clear, not being offended is not the same thing as not acting when necessary. No one who knows me (as some on this board do) would say that I am anything other than a blunt instrument in many ways when it comes to action. I also would not characterize myself as someone who allows people or institutions to take advantage of me. My point is that allowing emotions (of
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Random post As I consider to refine my belief system of one I have come up with a few core principles I live by. My favorite is that I have decided to never be offended. When you allow yourself to become offended you have lost. You have either: 1) Let the person attempting to offend you succeed 2) Lose a friend or relationship over a miscommunication By simply never being offended,
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
I am in the same boat. I hope my best friend and wife come with me someday.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Gray's Anatomy, because my body fascinates me Execution, The Discipline of Getting Things Done, for work and the Jack Reacher series, to escape - Currently starting book 10
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
Mormon swinging is quite popular in Draper as well... Interesting.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
left the first time at 19. The second at 38...it took that time now in my forties.
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3 years ago
icanseethelight
There are two which are not mentioned on the other thread but are really well done. 1: You're the Worst on FXX - for your 30 minute run 2: Orphan Black on Amazon Prime - for your 45 minute run Both of these are incredibly well written and well acted.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
TSCC is spending a tremendous amount of money on retargeting ads based on the cookies I have left up for 3 weeks now. I wanted to see how long they would continue to bombard me, but I am over it. My adspace is covered in BOM related materials, and I Amazon just suggested I buy a BOM... Desperation at every turn.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
I taught the youth for years. Primary all the way up to 18 yr olds. Some of them I taught in both primary and as teenagers. I am proud to report most of them are out... Subversion at its best :)
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
The widespread Balkanization of the U.S. Should be starting in the southern states and the west coast in about ten years.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
E Texas is a bitch for heat right now. I make my 13 year old now. We need to have a Dallas meetup
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
No it is Nue Grapefruit Vodka: https://www.google.com/search?q=nue+grapefruit+vodka&espv=2&biw=1139&bih=712&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0CAYQ_AUoAWoVChMIwKvlxP6pxwIVV4CSCh2zhQEr#imgrc=4RPA5y9z8Sb-oM%3A
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
My regular now. Grapefruit vodka over ice. Ahhhhh!!!
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
As long as it keeps the next generation from joining the shit show, it is a win.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
A historical science fiction story about Jews who traveled to the American continent after the second destruction of Jerusalem, and their adventures. Poorly written, with excessive use of "It came to pass" and extensive quoting from The Bible. Very difficult to follow as a narrative and the span of the story is too long with little story arc and an extensive flashback that is irrelevant
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
Are you kidding? OP would have been left after the second time she "interrogated" me. Everyone looks at other people. My DW and I make a game out of it. Get some help. You have a husband who puts up with a massive amount of your shit, and does not cheat on you, just looks at women. And you make his life hell because of it? I am stunned by the stupidity of this post.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
because she does not want to discuss the articles with you. And she uses the phrase "Denial, it ain't just a river in Egypt" in regards to herself, can I be cautiously optimistic? Probably not. But it is a nice dream. Shout out to all my brothers and sisters who have a spouse that could, but won't shake of the ties that bind.
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
118. Koriwhore
Is the Koriwhore here also on tumble with the same name?
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
Grapefruit vodka and ice
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4 years ago
icanseethelight
It does, in fact, look like petrified shiite after a Margerita an Mexican night!
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