Sounds like a tough situation, I am by no means an expert of what to do in marriage, only an expert of what not to do! So take this for its worth.
Here is my perspective on it though, you sound like you are really only together for the kids at this point. Once the kids are grown and moved out, whats going to keep you together? I have heard many marriages end once the kids move out, but I cant
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