Recovery from Mormonism

A site for those who are

Questioning their faith in the Mormon Church

And for those who need support

As they transition their lives to

a normal life.

We are not affiliated with any religion

and we do not advocate any religion.

Bulletin Boards 
1000 posts per day on the Recovery Board - 2013

  Recovery Board     &     Biography Board

Index Stories of ex-Mormons

Selected Newer Threads from the BBs
Newest Archives or  What's New? 
(latest update Mar. 2013)

Selected Older Threads from the BBs
Short Topics 650+
(l996 - Mar. 2012)

Thinking of Joining Mormonism?

Search the Site
Over 800,000 posts and articles

What's New?  (04/13)

ex-Mormon blogs 

Contacts

Resigning/Resignation

Breaking the News

E-mail Newsgroups

Mormon Letters

Articles and Links

Full Length Books --->

The Double-Bind

Journey / Odyssey


      2012 Exmormon Foundation Conference.   Information for 2012 here.  Audio files available

                   RfM on-line for 15+ years!!   

Recent Archives and Articles

 

Mormon News

Frequent Updates at:  What's New? and New Archives.  
Use the menus on top of the New Archives section such as "Recovery" and "History".

 Older format, yet highly relevant topics, (1996-2011) at Short Topics

RfM has an active bulletin board.  Bulletin Board!! 
Approaching
800,000 posts. 
[To search topics in threads use
: Search the Site and use the Google bar]

Apr. 2013 Archives Examples

 What to believe in now?
 Constantly Adrift Official Mormon Church Doctrine on God ...
 Apostle Holland Example on Personal Revelation
 Turns out advanced ancient civilizations leave a lot of stuff behind
 Does the anger ever end?
 I was raised to be racist
 The church is not a social club.
 Did Mormonism make you feel "never good enough?"
 Dear Parents, I am not responsible for your feelings
 Mormon Mission to Japan - Steve Benson  An excellent summary of a Mormon missionary experience in Japan,
 Why a never-mo hangs out here   Why people who were never a Mormon visit here.
 A loving tribute to flattop/XYZ  A long time contributor to Recovery from Mormonism.
 Mormon Missionary Murdered by his Companion  Story of how a Mormon missionary in Kentucky 1977, murdered his companion and avoided prison.  Personal accounts.
 Mormon Life - Short Courtships
 What was the worst part about your mission?
 Mormon Cosmology    Scientology has Xenu.  Mormonism has Elohim living near Kolob
 Mormon Missionary Companions Part 1
 Mormon Missionary Companions Part 2
 Mormon Missionary Companions Part 3
 Why did Joseph Smith marry women who were already married to  Mormon men?  Joseph Smith practiced polyandry.  The men were sent on missions and he married their wives during their absence.
 Is Primary always manipulative?
 Ruby Jessop has escaped the FLDS
 Two sister missionaries in my mission were raped
 Inspiring New Video Gives the Secret to Strengthening Testimonies
 The cult robbed me of my grief.
 My mission in hell - Suffer from Tourettes
 My sister's mission president's neglect could have killed her.
 Taking the first few steps.
 My ten years on RfM
 France and Polygamous Missionaries
 What exactly did you find out or discover first to make you leave the  Church?
 Teaching to manipulate - straight from the LDS manual
 I have been trying to be so brave. But I am terrified.
 Why is it so hard to "deprogram", trying to understand.
 Mormon Beliefs that did the most damage to me.
 

Emotions experienced when first comprehending that Mormonism is not what it claims to be.  Shock, horror, relief, excitement?  Nov. 2012

Recent DNA testing from soil samples gives further evidence that the Book of Mormon is just 19th century frontier fiction.   Horses in America  Sep. 2012

An excellent letter and summary of Book of Mormon issues written to apostle Jeffery Holland (May. 2012)   Holland - Book of Mormon  
Not a single Book of Mormon issue was addressed by Apostle Holland in his reply.
Here is Holland's reply
(May. 2012)   Reply from Elder Holland

A father writes about being excluded from his son's wedding 6 years ago because he, the father, was an unbeliever.  My Son apologized for Mormon temple wedding!  

Admittedly, not all Mormons are as extreme as these in this story, however their arrogance and feelings of superiority are quite common. (May 2012)  Mormon Relatives Visited for a Week

A life of sacrifice for the Mormon Church.  A Very Sad Sacrament Meeting Story

A non-Mormon mother writes about her and her children's experience living in Utah.  Life in Utah is often difficult for non-Mormons with young children.  Mormon640

Rare is that person who will say, "I’ll admit I was wrong all those years and I’ll face the consequences of those that will scorn, shun and ridicule me”.  Mormon636

Why Mormons believe in Big Foot.  Mormon637

More on the Mormon ad campaign.   Mormon650

Book of Mormon and recent (Aug. 2010) DNA studies.  Mormon601

Strange new advertising claiming Mormons are normal What happened to, "We are a peculiar people?"  Mormon629  

Mormon Church in Africa.  Mormon624

The Mormon Church is growing its Internet presence by using hundreds of web sites and millions of dollars in Google advertising.  Mormon625

A Family Church?  Sons and daughters of Bishops give their perspective.  Mormon618

Amelia's Palace - The mansion built for Brigham Young's favorite wife Mormon610

Kevin Garn - A Pedophile, a Bishop and the Majority Leader in the Utah Legislature.  Mormon605

Mormonism creates severe hardship for many members.  Mormon604

Stick to the manual and stop thinking. Mormons instructed to not use outside sources, especially the Internet, when teaching from the lesson manuals.  Mormon598 (Jan. 2010)  Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain.  (Mormontimes Magazine) Mormon599

Ward council meetings are filled with Gossip  Mormon612

What Shocks Mormons and non-Mormons as they learn about Mormonism. Mormon505

A concise summary of life as a Mormon. Mormon558

More on the Mormon Temple Rituals as seen on these videos. Mormon533

The Mormon Church in its official church magazine, "The Ensign", uses a story of a struggling single mother of 6 as an example of paying tithing.  The mother would rather have her children homeless and hungry than to neglect paying tithing.  Blind obedience or mindless irresponsibility?  Mormon583

A Family Church?  A non-Mormon mother writes about being excluded from the Mormon temple wedding of her convert daughter.  Mormon503     Also, women discuss their temple weddings.  Mormon507   Excluded from brother's temple wedding.  Mormon541

Newly Discovering the Facts on Mormonism?  Feelings and depression.  Mormon457

Mormon Belief Interferes with Rational Decision Making.  A concise summary of the dangers of believing in Mormonism and in magical thinking.  Mormon439

Racist teachings.  Missionaries and Blacks - Brazil 1970.   Mormon480

Should Joseph Smith be judged by present-day standards?  Smith and polygamy.  Mormon451

Polygamy, Big Love and Joseph Smith:  Mormon Polygamy

DNA and the Book of Mormon.  Read the article in the USA TodayThe story that Dr. Simon Southerton submitted to us as to why he left Mormonism due to DNA evidence is at whyleft125.htm.  Also, an interesting discussion on Mormon apologetics and DNA is at Mormon391. 

The Second Anointing.  A personal experience.  A look into the inside of one of the secrets of the Mormon Church.   Mormon508

BYU Students Commanded to have Children Now.  Do not wait:  Mormon390

Mormon Church Changed the Temple Ceremony Again in Jan 2005. Mormon386

Is FARMS, the Mormon funded apologetic group, credible?  
 
Read the discussion on peer review: Mormon333 
 
Summary on Mormon apologetics: Mormon441 
 
Tactics of Mormon apologists: Mormon376

Child Molesters Expose the Fallacy of Church Callings.  Mormon384

 

 

 

Feb. 2013 Mormon Church income annually through tithing is estimated at 7 billion dollars.  $7 billion in tithing

Jan. 2013 Mormon General Authorities have a very comfortable life on the backs of tithe paying members.   How Mormon General Authorities are Paid   They can afford to shop at the Mormon Church's 2 billion dollar  City Creek Mall. 

Dec. 2012  The new Mormon website - MormonsandGays.  "We believe that with an eternal perspective, a person's attraction to the same sex can be addressed and borne as a mortal test. It should not be viewed as a permanent condition".  Did Anything Really Change?

Dec. 2012  If paying tithing means that you can't pay for water or electricity, pay tithing. If paying tithing means that you can't pay your rent, pay tithing. Even if paying tithing means that you don't have enough money to feed your family, pay tithing. Ensign Dec. 2012  [Mormon Church Official Magazine]

Nov. 2012  The long term effects of polygamy.   The Genetic Catastrophe That Has Sprung from Polygamy

Sep. 22, 2012  Twede excommunication scheduled due to his writing of factual history of the Mormon church and criticism of Romney.  New York Times Weighs In

Sep. 11, 1857  Mountain Meadows Massacre -120 members  of the Francher party traveling through Utah executed by Mormons.  Mountain Meadows

July 2012  A recently published in Free Inquiry estimates that the Mormon Church donates only about 0.7 percent of its annual income to charity; the United Methodist Church gives about 29 percent. Charity

July 2012  Mormon Church claims 4 times as many members in Brazil than the 2010 Brazilian census data.  Both the JW's and Seventh Day Adventist's membership claims are consistent with census data.  This is another example of inflated Mormon membership statistics.  Brazil

Aug. 2012 update.  The Mormon Church's City Creek Center shopping mall and condo development is at 3 billion dollars (or more) per Salt Lake Chamber's Can-Do Coalition.  The entire redevelopment of downtown SLC is:   Five Billion Dollars    An organization that spends more on real estate to develop malls, condos and resorts ($500 million in Hawaii alone) than on helping the poor is, by any definition, a corporation, not a religion.    The published figures range from $1.5 billion for the mall to $3 billion.  $5 billion is for the total development downtown.  The Mormon church does not open its books.  We have published figures from KSL and Deseret News - both Mormon owned.   Thomas S. Monson, the Mormon prophet at the opening cheered, 'One, two, three—let's go shopping!'. He has rarely spoken in public since.   Mormon Mall City Creek profits are tax free  

May 2012  The Mormon Church falsifies US membership data for a national survey.  Church Statistics

Mar. 2012  A little background on Mitt Romney.  Mitt Romney's Mormon Secrets

Feb 2012  The Mormon Church has continued to baptize Holocaust Jews Baptisms for the dead

Feb 2012  The Mormon Church has become even more intrusive by requiring members to wear their sacred long underwear [garments] even while doing yard work.   Garments

Jan 2012  The Mormon Church's humanitarian aid now amounts to $6.73 per member per year - from an official Mormon publication.   Humanitarian Aid

Jan 2012  Another Mormon run Ponzi scheme defrauds fellow Mormons.  Another Ponzi

June 2011  More pressure to pay tithing, yet the Mormon Church never discloses its finances.  Mormon647

Mormon Church to spend more than $3.0 billion on a shopping mall in SLC.   Three years ago the cost was $2.0 billion.  More money is being spent on this mall and related development than given in total charitable aid in the last 30 years!  Is this a church or a corporation?  Donations to the Mormon church are not helping the poor.  Updates:  $38 million to divert City Creek to flow through the mall plus treat the water. A comparison to other large building projects.     Mormon403   Parts A, B, C. D. and E.

May. 2011  Yet another Mormon run Ponzi scheme defrauds fellow Mormons.  Mormon645

Feb. 2011  Multi-level marketing companies are second only to tourism in bringing in revenue to Utah.  Mormon639

Jan. 2011  The Mormon idea of service is to clean the bathrooms of a multi-billion dollar corporation.  Mormon634  

Oct. 2010  Apostle Boyd K. Packer's talk on homosexuality is edited after it is given in conference due to public outcry.  Mormon632  

Aug. 2010  R. Dean Udy, LDS Church Regional Representative, in prison for running a Ponzi Scheme bilking fellow Mormons of over $20 Million.  Affinity fraud is rampant in Utah and in the Mormon culture.  Mormon631  

Aug. 2010  Deseret News is being downsized.  Yet more evidence of current financial problems.  A new $15 million dollar building was erected for them just a few years ago.  Mormon630  

Aug. 2010  Condo Prices Slashed 50% at Mormon Church owned City Creek.   Mormon403e

Jun. 2010  Mormon Church eliminating more paid custodians.  It appears it is experiencing a cash crunch in financing the City Creek multi-billion dollar mall project.   Members are now expected to do more of the cleaning of meeting houses, temples and other church properties Mormon615

Dec. 2009  Mormon Church to spend over $100 million (estimate) on a hotel/resort complex in Hawaii.  Mormon595 

Oct. 2009  Apostle Dallin Oaks lacks the moral authority to lecture anyone on civil rights.  Mormon591 

Oct. 2009  Apostle Holland misleads members with his Book of Mormon prop and his assertions.  Mormon587 

Aug. 2009  The Mormon Church appears to be abandoning the Book of Abraham, a supposed translation by Joseph Smith from some common Egyptian funeral papyri.  Mormon586  

Jun. 2009  Mormon Church has spent nearly $600 million to bail out Beneficial Life via Deseret Management over the last 2 years.  The Mormon Church can find hundreds of millions to fund failing institutions, yet it is unwilling to help average members.  Mormon581

Apr. 2009  Dallin Oaks, Mormon Apostle, tells members at the Easter Midwest conference, via satellite broadcast, that the church will not help them during these difficult economic times.    Mormon576.   Members who paid tithing all of their lives will find that the church will refuse to assist or, at best, grant minimal assistance with heavy guilt placed on the member for asking. 

Mar. 2009  Discussions on the HBO series Big Love and on the Mormon Temple Ceremony.  Mormon572.    See also the Bulletin Boards for up to date information.

Feb. 2009  The Mormon church receives more than 5-8 billion dollars per year in tithing alone from US wards [congregations] based the on experiences of ward clerks and gives less than 1.3% in charitable aid.  Mormon565

Jan. 2009  The Mormon church initiates a hiring freeze and continues to work on the 2 billion dollar mall in SLC.  Freeze

Dec. 2008  The Mormon Church being investigated for its involvement in California's Proposition 8.   Mormon559

Sep. 2008  A Mormon High Priest has been threatened with excommunication for writing against an anti-gay amendment in California.  TV Story Neb.  and  TV Story SLC  Also follow the discussions on the bulletin board.  Recovery bb   Public opinion has forced the church to delay the court date to after the Nov. election.  See Court Delayed

Sep. 2008 (updated) Mormon apologists now fighting other Mormon apologists over the alleged locations of the Book of Mormon events. Mormon534

July 2008  A Mormon man  was excommunicated for his calendar of shirtless male Mormon missionaries.  The Marriott corporation and its Mormon owners are one of the largest purveyors of hard core pornography in the US.  The Marriotts have never been reprimanded.  Instead, they are held in high esteem by the Mormon hierarchy due to the large amount of tithing they pay.  To read about the excommunication of Hardy, see:  Mormon539   

June 2008  Depression wide spread in Utah.  ABCNews Story

Mormon Church to spend more than $2.0 billion on shopping malls in SLC.  More money is being spent on these malls than given in total charitable aid in the last 22 years!  Is this a church or a corporation?  Donations to the Mormon church are not helping the poor.   Mormon403

May 2008  Mormon Church attempts to gag the Internet regarding posting the "Handbook of Instructions".  Mormon528

Apr. 2008  Joseph Smith and Warren Jeffs: Two peas in the same polygamous pod.  Mormon526   &  Mormon Polygamy Mormon527

Apr. 2008 - Mormon prophet wants former members to return.  Comments from former members Mormon524

Mar. 2008 - Utah is the state with the highest rate of depression.  Mormon521

Dec. 2007 – Mitt Romney has a casual relationship with truth    Mormon502

Dec. 2007 – Utah now leads the nation in depression.   Mormon499

Nov. 2007 – Book of Mormon Change:  Lamanites are no longer the principal ancestors of the American Indians.   Mormon492

A Missionary’s food and personal hygiene budget slashed to $4 per day in the USA.   Mormon477

General Conference Highlights.  Wives are possessions.  Mormon468   Parable of the Pickle.  Mormon471

LA Times: The Book of Mormon and DNA:  Book of Mormon and DNA  Discussions on DNA:  Mormon440

Utah Leads the Nation in Bankruptcy filings again.    Mormon356

Newsweek publishes an article for the Mormon Church by a BYU graduate.  The author at least admits that Joseph Smith used a seer stone in a hat for ‘translation’, which is quite different from the official church teachings.  She also admits that Smith was a polygamist. Mormon433

Limits of Free Speech in Mormonism.  A BYU Philosophy Professor fired for writing his opinion.  Mormon449

A web site for former Mormons and those questioning their faith in the organization of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints


The purpose of this site is to let people who are or were in Mormonism, know they are not alone in their feelings and experiences in their quests to regain their lives after years in this religion.  We have e-mail groups to join, bulletin boards, gatherings and individuals to help with a transition to a post-Mormon life.  We advocate no specific religious preference or religious activities after Mormonism.     Our active participants are diverse and from differing cultural backgrounds throughout the world. 

 

A Mormon Odyssey   A free full length book about a lifetime of Mormonism is now online.    It also can be ordered from the publisher.  A great book about life as Mormons written by Larry and Tammy Braithwaite.   Autographed copies now available.

Book of Abraham Documentary See http://www.bookofabraham.info for details.

Continuously updated new material to read at the Bulletin Boards or Short Topics or Newest Archives


This site contains a significant collection of stories of those who have left the Mormon Church. 
The site also contains documentation and links on topics concerning this religion.

This site was originally founded in November 1995.

Exmormon.org  Cleveland,  TN  37320

Search | Stories  | Bulletin Boards

 

  

donation will state "RfM"

This is a once-in-while donation request.  This is only the 3rd request since 1995.   Updated Mar. 17, 2013.   Our expenses are minimal.

No one is paid to run the site or admin the bulletin boards.  We do pay for site fees, ISP help, and upgrades, such as the archive. 

We hope to have a better site by paying a web developer in the near future (summer 2013).